This is part 2 of my review of Csikszentmihalyi’s book
Flow, covering chapters 4, 5, and 6. (post #1 covering chapters 1-3 is here).
Csikszentmihalyi begins chapter 4 with a brief review
of the concept of “optimal experience”: “a sense that one’s skills are adequate to
cope with the challenges at hand, in a goal-oriented, rule-bound action system
that provides clear clues as to how one is performing” (71). When in flow our attention is so intense we
do not worry about anything irrelevant (e.g. the soccer player sprinting to
take a shot on net is not asking themselves “is my hair messy?” or “will my
teammate be mad at me if I don’t pass them the ball so they have a chance to
score a goal as I already have a goal this game?”.
Self-consciousness disappears- when in the flow of soccer a player is present
to the game, transcending (at least temporarily) the temporal realities that
the rent is due, or a stressful work assignment is due, the next day. Such activities are so enjoyable we pursue
them for their own sake. We are not
preoccupied with asking “what will I get out of this activity?” or stressing
about how difficult or dangerous they might be.
How do such experiences
happen? Csikszentmihalyi notes that flow can sometimes happen
by happenstance, when the fortuitous circumstances of external and internal
conditions align. His example is an
engaging dinner conversation that arises between friends one night, that
engrosses everyone so much that the evening flies by. Such spontaneous events can occur. But flow is much more likely to be realized from
structured activity or an individual’s ability to make flow occur (or a
combination of both).
Flow activities include things like making music, rock
climbing, dancing, sailing, chess, play, rituals, art, sports, and so
forth. These activities make optimal
experience more likely to occur. Their
rules require the learning skills, and they have goals and provide feedback,
etc. The primary function of such
activities is the provision of enjoyable experiences.
Roger Caillois classified
games into the following 4 categories:
(1)
Agon: games that have competition as their main feature
(e.g. most sports).
(2)
Alea: games of chance
(e.g. bingo, dice games, etc.)
(3)
ilinx: or vertigo, games
which alter our ordinary perception, such as rollercoasters, skydiving, etc.
(4)
mimicry: alternative realities are created, such as in
theatre, dance, and the arts in general.
As a teen (and then as a father with my
youngest son) one of my favourite games to play was Dungeons and Dragons. It combined both alea (rolling the
dice to see if you could inflict damage with your sword on the enemy Orcs) and mimicry
as the adventure takes place in a mythical scenario (e.g. try to steal the dragon’s
treasure) with fictional characters (e.g. the team is typically made up of fighters,
thieves, dwarfs, magicians, etc. each with their own unique strengths and
limitations, etc.). And there are clear
goals- vanquish one’s enemies, find treasure, embrace adventure, take risks!,
etc. Of the 4 types of play listed the
only one I have an aversion to is Ilinx, I don’t like roller coaster
rides etc., things that spin me around etc.
The only kind of amusement park rides I do like are those that involve water-
waterslide rides I do enjoy!
All flow
activity, argues Csikszentmihalyi,
has the following in common: “It
provided a sense of discovery, a creative feeling of transporting the person
into a new reality. It pushed the person
to higher levels of performance, and lead to previously undreamed-of states of
consciousness” (74). Self-growth
is thus the key aspect of flow activities.
The central focus of this chapter is the determinates
of optimal experience, and Csikszentmihalyi identifies both internal and external
factors.
With respect to the former, Csikszentmihalyi speculates
(p. 84) that genetic inheritance probably has an influence on our realization
of optimal experience (but no studies or particular genetic mutations are
mentioned). But genes obviously do not
completely determine our experience of flow.
Csikszentmihalyi
suggests
that schizophrenics who suffer from anhedonia (lack of pleasure), may
lack the ability to concentrate needed to experience flow. Some learning disorders among children may
also impede flow because a child cannot control psychic energy. Excessive self-consciousness (e.g. constant
worry about how others perceive you) and excessive self-centeredness “both lack
the intentional fluidity needed to relate to activities for their own sake; too
much psychic energy is wrapped up in the self, and free attention is rigidly
guided by its needs” (85). Such mindsets
are ill-equipped for being motivated to undertake intrinsic goals, goals that
require one to lose oneself.
Csikszentmihalyi
suggests (p. 86) that, just as some people are born with innate genetic
advantages for muscular coordination, some people may have a genetic advantage
with controlling their consciousness. Later
(p. 88) he contends that, while the association between the ability to
concentrate and flow is clear, more research is needed to determine if it is learning
vs genetic inheritance that is the cause of more optimal experience.
In addition to these internal obstacles to /facilitators of
optimal experience, Csikszentmihalyi
notes that a number of environmental obstacles/facilitators also exist. Extreme social conditions like slavery,
exploitation and oppression can eliminate enjoyment in life. Family life is also another important
factor. Csikszentmihalyi notes that flow
activity parallels the following five characteristics of “autotelic family
context”:
1.
Clarity: teenagers feel that they know what is
expected from their parents, goals and feedback are not ambiguous.
2.
Centering: child feels that the parent is interested in
what they are doing in the present (not just with them getting into college or
getting a well paid job).
3.
Choice: children feel they have a menu of options to
choose from, including breaking the expectations of parents (but then being
subjected to the consequences of doing that action).
4.
Commitment: the trust a child feels that permits them to set
aside the shield of defense, so they can become unselfconsciously involved in
what they are interested in.
5.
Challenge: parents’ dedication to provide increasingly
complex opportunities for action to their children. (88-89)
Csikszentmihalyi notes that the traits of the autotelic personality is
most evident in the people who enjoy situations most people find intolerable.
For example, in prison. Examples of this
are prisoners in solitary confinement that find opportunities for mental
action and setting goals. When such
persons are faced with adversity, which frustrates the realization of their
goals, they are able to “pivot” and find meaningful goals within the challenging
circumstances.
The chapter concludes with an insightful quote from the philosopher
Bertrand Russell: “Gradually I learned
to be indifferent to myself and my deficiencies, I came to center my attention
increasingly upon external objects: the
state of the world, various branches of knowledge, individuals for whom I felt
affection”. Some persons are born with
the gifts of genetic inheritance and an early upbringing that confer advantages
on their ability to enjoy optimal experience.
In the next chapter Csikszentmihalyi turns his attention to the issue of
being open to cultivate, through training and discipline, the autotelic
personality.
Chapter 5 titled “The Body in Flow” addresses a number of
interesting topics, like sports, sex and the senses (e.g. seeing, hearing and
tasting). In the physical activity of
sport we can enter “flow”, but it requires both body and mind. Simply running doesn’t mean we will
experience flow. The mind has to be
involved as well. Physical acts are
transformed into flow, argues Csikszentmihalyi,
when the following 5 essential steps are involved: (a) there is a set overall goal, and
subgoals, that are realistically feasible; (b) we find ways to measure our
progress towards those goals; (c) we concentrate on what we are doing, and find
ways to make finer and finer distinctions in the challenges involved in the
activity; (d) we develop the skills necessary to interact with the
opportunities available; (e) raise the stakes if activity becomes boring (97).
I can think of many examples of how these points have factored into my
own enjoyment of working out, running and playing sports. With weight training you can set goals to
increase strength/weights, and measure progress in terms of muscle
development. With sports you can set
goals to improve- with ball handling, passing accuracy and shooting (e.g.
soccer). Over the past few years I have
increased my running distance and speed.
I monitor my pace per mile and heart rate on an app and see if I can
improve both my average and fastest times each summer season. Each time I set a personal best, or get among
a “top time” pace record, it makes the new target even harder to
accomplish. But this provides an immense
source of motivation for getting me out to run regularly all year, to try to
keep some endurance over the winter months so I do not fall back too much
before the start of the next spring/summer run season. The one hard lesson I have had to learn over
the past decade is to modify expectations, goals, etc. in light of injuries and
the wear and tear of getting older. But
even within these modified goals I try to find a positive mindset that provides
me realistic goals I can work towards.
And I find this keeps me highly motivated.
Sex is another activity that Csikszentmihalyi identifies as a potential
optimal experience activity. However as
he notes (p. 101), sexual activity is not inherently enjoyable. It really depends on how it is related to
one’s goals. Sexual activity that is
contrary to one’s goals (e.g. when involuntary) is painful and revolting. But when experienced with an intimate partner who one has a strong emotional bond with and the sex is an expression of the sanctity of
that bond then it can be a blissful experience.
But Csikszentmihalyi does claim that sex can, with time, easily get
boring. In such cases it is an activity done either as a
meaningless ritual or an addictive dependance.
So he emphasizes a number of different ways that can keep sex
enjoyable. Eroticism, for example, “is
one form of cultivating sexuality that focuses on the development of physical
skills (p. 101). He notes that the Karma
Sutra is a manual that can help make sexual activity more varied and
challenging. But more important that
cultivating the physical is the psychological dimensions of sexuality. Wooing, romance and sharing of feelings
between intimates can keep their bond vigorous.
To sustain romantic relationships over time, argues Csikszentmihalyi,
partnerships must become more complex.
“To become more complex, the partners must discover new potentialities
in themselves and their partner” (103).
And this requires investing attention in each other- into their goals
and dreams, etc.
Yoga and the martial arts are also emphasized as ways to cultivate
optimal experience. The visual arts also
permit us to develop an appreciation for the enjoyment of seeing. “Listening to music can ward off boredom and
anxiety, and when seriously attended to, it can induce flow experiences” (109).
One of my favorite activities is addressed in the final pages of this
chapter- cooking (and eating). I love
cooking, especially more complex meals that take time to cook, require some
extensive preparation and will be shared with loved ones and friends. I can become engrossed in a 3 hour dinner
preparation, the time flies by, and I engage in the rituals of lighting the
fire of my Green Egg smoker, searing a meat, and then slowing cooking it while
preparing an assortment of side dishes.
To have everything ready at a pre-set time when guests arrive for dinner
elicits a deep sense of satisfaction (cleaning up afterwards, not so
much!). By contrast, cooking something
mundane, such as frozen chicken nuggets (which my kids enjoyed when younger) is boring and a chore. Just turn on the
oven, stick the tray in, and set the timer.
There was no real risk (overcooking or undercooking a fillet mignon), no
complexity (different spices of rub to use), no concentration was required (in
contrast to the BBQ, when you need to attend to the initial sear of the meat,
and then close the vents to lower the temperature or add wood chips to for
smoking the meat, etc.).
I also get great enjoyment out of eating, especially trying new food or
food I do not have the opportunity to eat very regularly.
Csikszentmihalyi concludes this chapter with the following statement:
To realize the
body’s potential for flow is relatively easy.
It does not require special talents or great expenditures of money. Everyone can improve their quality of life by
exploring one or more previously underexplored dimension of physical abilities
(116).
Chapter 7 is titled
“The Flow of Thought”, and this addresses what, for me personally, has been the
most significant source of optimal experience- the enjoyment that can come from
exercising and developing our mental capacities. My own personal philosophy is one of striving
to be a life-long learner, to engage with life from a perspective of curiosity,
flexibility and growth. I believe the
opposite of these three intellectual virtues- the vices of indifference,
rigidity and stagnation- imprison our minds to intellectual apathy and entropy.
Csikszentmihalyi argues that “the mind offers at least as many and as
intense opportunities for action as does the body” (141). I think this is a conservative statement of
the potential for the mind to contribute to our enjoyment and wellbeing. I really would have liked to see Csikszentmihalyi
take this issue further, perhaps addressing empirical studies that examine how different
physical disabilities impact flow, and compare that with the impact different
types of intellectual impairment have on optimal experience. A physical limitation might constrain our
ability to dance, or losing one’s sight could diminish the potential to enjoy
the visual arts. But if the mind possesses memory, and is flexible to re-focus energy and meaning, I would not be
surprised if the mind has the ability to overcome many physical constraints, so
that flow can still be enjoyed. That may
be more challenging to do if intellectual impairments limit or interfere with the cognitive processes involved with optimal experience, like setting
realistic goals, being able to measure progress or concentrate, raising the stakes
when the complexity of challenges dimmish, etc.
Reading is the first
intellectual pursuit he addresses in the chapter. We find solving mental puzzles enjoyable,
whether it be a detective’s murder mystery novel, the entangled love story of a
Harlequin romance novel, a historical analysis of the causes of war or an
autobiography about the early life and upbringing of a celebrity. Csikszentmihalyi claims that the normal
mental state of the being is chaos (119).
Bringing order to the representation of the world requires
training. Our minds gravitate towards
activities which provide information which distracts us from the chaos of
life. This might mean watching lots of
TV, or spending lots of time on social media or just day dreaming. But
these activities might reduce our enjoyment because they are a low investment
of our physic energy. So being conscious
about the kinds of activities we commonly engage in to keep distracted (e.g. checking
our phones) could be a first stop towards improving our wellbeing.
The remainder of the chapter focuses on history, science and
philosophy. Can we find more value in
history? Yes. Csikszentmihalyi suggests we focus on an area
of history we are interested in- like the civil war, baseball, etc- and strive
to have a good grasp of the subject. Personal history, like remembering your
own past events and experiences, is also something that can add enjoyment (and
preserve your sense of personal identity). Keeping diaries, old photos, etc.
are important for this.
The discussion of philosophy made me think of the Philosophy Meetup (Kingston) group itself. The group has met an amazing 111
times over the past 3.5 years! Lots of
great discussions and debates about ethics, politics, art, science, religion,
etc. Each of these conversations has
introduced new insights and perspectives into our minds. And doing this is fun! For me personally, intellectual conversations
are a major source of optimal enjoyment.
I am very fortunate that my career permits me to indulge in these pursuits.
Here are a few questions we might discuss from these chapters:
1. What are your
favorite forms of bodily flow? How do
you feel when you engage in these activities?
Or when you haven’t been able to do these activities for a while?
2. Family life:
did you grow up an in an “autotelic family context”? Can you think of examples
of (a) clarity (teenagers feel that they
know what is expected from their parents, goals and feedback are not ambiguous),
(b) centering (a parent was interested in what they are doing in the
present), (c) choice, (4) commitment and
(5) challenge?
3. Is there
a particular subject in history, science or philosophy you aspire to learn more
about? What makes it interesting and
fulfilling for you?
4. Which
types of games are you favourite to play?
Agon: games that have competition as their main feature
(e.g. most sports).
Alea: games of chance (e.g.
bingo, dice games, etc.)
ilinx: or vertigo, games which
alter our ordinary perception, such as rollercoasters, skydiving, etc.
mimicry: alternative realities are created, such as in
theatre, dance, and the arts in general.
5. Exercise: can
you think of one neglected form of bodily flow that you could cultivate- perhaps
it is appreciating music or the visual arts more, or achieving a new exercise
target (e.g. longer or faster walks or a run), or trying to prepare or eat new
foods, or yoga and meditation. Try doing
this consistently for a few weeks and see if it adds a qualitative aspect to
your daily life.
Cheers,
Colin