Epictetus The Discourses (Book II)
Epictetus
Book II
Here
is a summary of book II of Epictetus’s Discourses (book I summary is here). The chapter titles are as
follows:
Chapter 1 That confidence is not
inconsistent with caution
Chapter 2 Of Tranquillity
Chapter 3 To those who recommend persons to
philosophers
Chapter 4 Against a person who had once been detected
in adultery
Chapter 5 How magnanimity is
consistent with care
Chapter 6 Of indifference
Chapter 7 How we ought to use
divination
Chapter 8 What is the nature of the
good
Chapter 9 That when we cannot fulfill that which the
character of a man promises, we assume the character of a
philosopher
Chapter 10 How we may discover the duties of life
from names
Chapter 11 What the beginning of philosophy is
Chapter 12 Of disputation or discussion
Chapter 13 On anxiety
Chapter 14 To Naso
Chapter 15 To or against those who
obstinately persist in what they have determined
Book
II begins with what I see as one of the distinctive strengths of stoicism as
form of virtue epistemology- it’s nuance and dept of insight. It is common for us to see the moral
landscape through simple dichotomies- that certain beliefs, dispositions or
actions are either good or bad. EP
addresses the issue of confidence and caution, which might appear as
contradictory dispositions/attitudes, but he maintains they are not. The alleged paradox can be resolved
by having caution and care about things within our control, and confidence in
the things beyond our control as they cannot really harm us.
For
EP, the “bad consists in a bad exercise of the will” and thus “caution ought
only to be used where things are dependent on the will”. He makes an analogy with deer being hunted
and fleeing hunter’s arrows only to run into their nets:
We are then in the condition of deer; when they flee
from the huntsmen's feathers in fright, whither do they
turn and in what do they seek refuge as safe? They turn to
the nets, and thus they perish by confounding things which
are objects of fear with things that they ought not to fear. Thus we also act: in what cases do we fear? In things which are
independent of the will. In what cases, on the contrary, do
we behave with confidence, as if there were no danger? In
things dependent on the will.
EP
then applies this insight to death itself.
He claims “Confidence then ought to be employed
against death, and caution against the fear of death. “ We will all die, that is a certainty and
cannot be changed. Thus we should not
fret about death itself. But what we
should be concerned about is our fear of death.
This is a product of our “will”.
We do not need to have so much anxiety around the fear of death. If we come to accept that death is a
certainty, and thus a question of “when?” vs “if?”, we can adopt the more
helpful mindset of living now and making the most of the opportunities we still
have for today.
This
issue raises one I have brought to the fore before with respect to how advances
in public health and medicine complicate the stoic’s attitude about death. Of course death is inevitable. But we can influence the risks of both
disease and death. During the time of EP
our ability to reduce these risks were much more constrained, hence why life
expectancy did not exceed age 30. But we
have more than doubled that life expectancy, thanks in part to having caution
about specific causes of death- like drinking contaminated water, being exposed
to infectious viruses, traffic fatalities, the adverse health consequences of
smoking, obesity, diet and physical activity.
Perhaps there can be a 21st century reformulation of EP’s insight here, that
some reasonable degree of caution with respect to our physical and mental
health should be pursued, but at the same time an acceptance that, inevitably,
even our best efforts will not stop (by merely delay) the onset of disease,
frailty and, eventually death.
Chapter
4 has some interesting reflections on infidelity. EP claims that man is formed for fidelity, and
that someone who commits adultery sacrifices not only modesty and sanctity, but
the overthrowing of “neighbourhood, and friendship and the community”. This strikes me as anachronistic and a
function of the hierarchal tenets of the original versions of stoicism. In this period I assume relationships were
more about duty than romantic love, and thus a violation of this duty was seen
as an afront to the moral fabric of society as a whole. A more compassionate and nuanced perspective
is provided in this book- which details the 17
different reasons people have affairs:
See-if affair
Ejector-seat
affair
Heating-up your
marriage affair
Distraction
affair
Breakout-into-self
affair
I just need to
indulge myself affair
Let’s-kill-this-relationship-and-see-if-if-it-comes-back-to-life-affair
Unmet needs
affair
Having-experiences-I-missed-out-on
affair
Do I still have
it? Affair
Surrogate-therapy
affair
Trading-up affair
Accidental affair
Revenge affair
Mid-life crisis
affair
Sexual-panic
affair
Midmarriage-crisis
affair
The motivations, moral character, and potential adverse societal impact of these different
reasons for infidelity can vary quite considerably (some might have a more
lasting impact on the animosity among parents after divorcing, making
co-parentnig more challenging). So I
would reject the quick and sweeping generalizations EP makes in book II chapter 4,
though I suspect norms and expectations around familial duties and spousal
roles have changed significantly since the time of EP.
I
was really intrigued by EP’s chapter 10 titled “How we may discover the duties
of life from names”. Here EP notes
we have many identities which are bound up in our different names. I am a man, a father, a brother, an uncle, a
colleague and a citizen (and in the past I use also be a son, grandson and
husband).
EP
remarks:
… you are a citizen of the world,
and a part of it, not one of the subservient, but one of the principal parts, for you are capable of comprehending the divine
administration and of considering the connection of
things. What then does the character of a citizen promise?
To hold nothing as profitable to himself; to deliberate about
nothing as if he were detached from the community, but to act as the hand or foot would do, if they had reason and understood the
constitution of nature, for they would never put
themselves in motion nor desire anything, otherwise than
with reference to the whole. Therefore the philosophers say
well, that if the good man had foreknowledge of what would happen, he would cooperate toward his own sickness and death and
mutilation, since he knows that these things are assigned
to him according to the universal arrangement, and that
the whole is superior to the part and the state to the
citizen. But now, because we do not know the future, it is our duty to stick to the things which are in their nature more suitable for
our choice, for we were made among other things for this.
Sometimes
the duties and obligations of our identities conflict. Work commitments, for example, may conflict
with parental duties. Either you are a
diligent worker and feel like a negligent parent, or vice versa. Or the duties as a citizen or human being
might require sacrifices that conflict with familial duties are some reasonable
degree of self-regarding concern. To
function as a feasible and reasonable personal ethic I think stoicism must
offer some insightful advice on how to reasonably balance the different moral
demands that are placed upon us. But I
did not see how EP could help us navigate through these issues.
In
Chapter 11 EP asserts that intellectual humility is the first act of
philosophy- “The beginning of philosophy to him at least who enters on it
in the right way and by the door, is a consciousness of
his own weakness and inability about necessary
things.” It might be a useful group exercise for everyone to reflect on
humility as a personal epistemic virtue.
Over time have you become more or less humble, as you have acquired more
life experience. Is there a specific
belief that you have changed your mind on?
Something that the younger you had some very strong convictions about but
now you hold an opposing or more nuanced view.
Think of an example you would be comfortable sharing with the group.
EP
continues by highlighting the causes of disagreement, he remarks: “Observe, this is the beginning of
philosophy, a perception of the disagreement of men with
one another, and an inquiry into the cause of the
disagreement”. Think of some significant
social issue that people disagree about, it might be something pertaining to
climate change, or vaccination passports, or fiscal or immigration policies. Think of your position on this issue. And then try, in the most compassionate and
authentic fashion, to articulate the strongest opposing argument to your own
convictions. This “playing the devil’s
advocate” role and keeping an open mind about considering different premises-
empirical and normative- or weighing concerns (risks/benefits) differently is
the “nuts and bolts” of real policy disagreement. Sadly in popular debates and the media
disagreement is often portrayed as between “the experts vs the idiots”, but
this framing seldom leads to any genuine understanding of opposing
perspectives, and with it a reasonable compromise.
Chapter
13 covers a very topical issue given the pandemic- the prevalence of
anxiety.
“When I see a man anxious, I
say, "What does this man want? If he did not want
something which is not in his power, how could he be anxious?" For this reason a lute player when he is singing by himself has no
anxiety, but when he enters the theatre, he is anxious
even if he has a good voice and plays well on the lute;
for he not only wishes to sing well, but also to obtain
applause: but this is not in his power.
Let’s
take some time to unpack anxiety. Some
degree of anxiety can be healthy and productive, helping us to perform better
and focus. For example, the anxiety a
student might feel before an exam or a single person before a first date. But taken too far, anxiety can be a
destructive force, leading a person to ruminate endlessly in their head about
something they cannot control (e.g. “will my date like me?”) and avoiding the
actions needed to lean into, and work through, their anxiety (e.g. cancelling
the date at the last minute vs risking rejection).
EP
notes how confidence is the antidote to anxiety. He gives the example of a musician. If
someone lacks musical skills they would be anxious about performing for
others. But to someone who has practiced
and is competent as a musician, they will not be anxious. Carrying that example over to the dating
example, a person who is truly happy and accepting of who they are (i.e. their sense
of self-esteem is not contingent upon a stranger liking them), and has some
experience dating will not have anxiety about going on a first date. They know that no one “rejects them’, but
rather they just might not be the right match.
And that’s ok, you date people to find the right match (something that
cannot be achieved without experiencing some mismatches). The bottom line- action (and
the experience and competence that comes with it) is the way to redress anxiety.
Summarizing
then a few of the topics that might be interesting for the group to focus on
from Book 2 include:
1. EP’s resolution of the
so-called “paradox” of caution/confidence (and how that applies to death).
2. What different moral duties
and obligations arise from your “different identities” (e.g. partner, parent,
co-worker, citizen, human being) and how do you manage potential conflicts
between these duties/obligations when they arise?
3. humility- as you gain more life experience and
insight have you become more or less humble?
What core conviction/belief have you changed your mind on?
4. Disagreement exercise: think of some societal predicament there is
strong disagreement about, and try to think of the most compelling
counter-points to the position you take.
5. Reflect on the prevalence of
anxiety in society today. How can we,
both personally and in our culture more generally, reduce the burden and toll
anxiety inflicts on so many people? Do
you think stoicism can be of real help for this problem?
Should
be a stimulating discussion!
Cheers,
Colin